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Born to Run, 2014: It’s Just About… Life.

January 2, 2014 By markbrodinsky Leave a Comment

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“Someday girl I don’t know when we’re gonna get to that place where we really wanna go and we’ll walk in the sun. But til then tramps like us, baby we were born to run.”
– Bruce Springsteen, Born To Run

As 2013 came to a close, if you took the time to think about all you were grateful for and all you accomplished last year, then it’s easy to move forward with clarity and a great feeling of abundance,(http://markbrodinsky.com/2013/12/31/new-year-not-until-you-look-back-its-just-about-life/). If you haven’t done it, there’s still time, there’s always time, because time is what you make of it instead of what you let it make of you.

But the clock is ticking, since it’s now 2014. Let’s face it, January 2nd is really the beginning of a new year, since the first day is a holiday for many and one last chance to chill before it’s time to get up and get going.

So where do you want to go? And how are you going to get there? It’s not as difficult as you think, nor as overwhelming, though it might seem to be sometimes. If you took the time to look back and survey all the blessings of 2013, many of which YOU made happen, then you know what you did right and what still needs work. Like my friend Rob Commodari says, “if you’re not growing, you’re dying.” No one wants that and everyone can get better at something!

So make it easy, set some goals, NOT resolutions. Resolutions are society’s easy way out. Say it once, think it or maybe even write it down, then stick it in a drawer and pull it out at the end of the year and say, “oops, guess I didn’t do it, I’ll think of some more meaningless ones for 2015.” You are better than that and you deserve more. So go for some goals. Think of just three. I say this time and time again… three is a magic number.

If you have more than three goals, you probably have none. Three is plenty to shoot for in 2014. But you must not just think it, ink it. Write them down and then also write down a plan to get there. It takes a little time, but if you knew you could spend just a few hours doing something that could improve your year, your future, your life dramatically, wouldn’t you make the investment. If you could get healthier not just in body, but in mind, spirit, financially, in your relationships, at work, in your business, with your friends, or in the steps toward your dream, wouldn’t you make the investment of time? I hope so.

I’ve already done part of this, took a look at three things I will accomplish in 2014. And I’m working on a plan to get there. A plan I can track and modify as events warrant, as life changes, as obstacles get in my way and as I find a way to overcome. With most people, and I bet with you too, the goals will touch on a few areas of life, health, wealth and family/love. These things are important to most, but most don’t make them important enough to affect change. So do it. Write it down and keep it private, only share it with a few people. If you notice, I don’t write mine down here, because the whole world doesn’t need to know, except for a few people who can hold me accountable. And that’s important, try to find someone, or just a few people to help you stay on track. But keep your big goals close to the vest, because they are near and dear to your heart. That’s what makes goals different from resolutions. Everyone shares their New Year’s Resolutions…because they know they will never keep them and they don’t care!!

Goals are different, real goals matter, because you matter and your life matters and getting better matters. It should. Go after your goals and work toward your dream as if your life depends on it. Because it does. And not just your life, but the lives of others because their lives will improve as yours does. It’s just the way it works, and in the end isn’t that what it’s all about? Brendon Burchard, author of the Millionaire Messenger, says don’t wait until the end of life to ask yourself these three questions: “Did I live fully? Did I love openly? Did I matter?” Look at yourself and ask those three questions NOW.

Singer/songrwriter/legend Bruce Springsteen echoes the same message at the beginning of this blog, if you want to get to that place where you really wanna go and walk in the sun… then baby, you were born to run. Start today, get up, get going and start running toward a better you. The new year, the people you love, this world, your life is waiting.

Until next time, thanks for taking the time.

Mark

Mark Brodinsky, Author
It Takes 2. Surviving Breast Cancer: A Spouse’s Story
#1 Amazon Best Seller
www.spouses-story.com
markbrodinsky@gmail.com

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Love seeing new blogs hit the ground running like this one (by a dad no less), but I also urge anyone vaguely interested in blogging to stay tuned, I am. Good luck on your journey – glad that I am along for the ride.

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Great blog Mark! I always appreciate reading what you have to say. You are very gifted and talented and hopefully someday you’ll not just blog, but write a book.

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I’m definitely along for the ride. We’ve all seen how much damage the written word can inflict. More positive writers are needed. And I love how you are using your personal experiences – those with your wife and children – and your gift of writing to open eyes and to inspire others.

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Absolutely beautifully written! The girls in your life must be very proud of you. Thanks for sharing Mark, I look forward to reading more!

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Absolutely beautiful! Are you at all thinking of penning a book? You’ve got a fan base out there that really thinks you should Mark. You write so eloquently. Glad that I got onto this site.

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Mark, You are truly a gifted writer and obviously, a special father and husband . Always a delight to read your words.

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From your first writing in 4th grade entitled “People” which was published in the school newspaper, you have always been able to write. Never more so than when you started “Caringbridge” and now your blog, everyone who reads says what a wonderful writer you are. Our DREAM for you is to become an author and encourage people every day. You are by the far the best and we hope and pray you reach your dream.

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I know you always thank us for reading but I would like to say thanks for writing.

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Great piece. You are an inspiration!

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Mark I just wanted to let you know that you are succeeding in your “ultimate goal”. I have gained so much from your blogs. I look forward to reading them for the special lift that they give me. Thank you.

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I love waking up and starting my day with my coffee and your blog! It a great way to start my day with positive uplifting thoughts!! It puts me in a positive frame of mind throughout the day and allows me to reflect on my personal life, make changes, and grow !!!

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WOW!!! It Takes 2 is a must read for anyone who has known someone diagnosed with cancer or other life threatening disease. This is the real story of a family lead by an incredible woman, Debbie Brodinsky, who took radical steps to beat the breast cancer beast. The story is told by her husband, Mark Brodinsky, through journal entries he kept starting with diagnosis through one year cancer free. This author's unique ability to pour his heart out onto the page draws you in from the beginning and holds you until the very end.

Thanks to Mark and Debbie Brodinsky for this gift...I have a new perspective on what it means to be a breast cancer survivor. You are a hero, Debbie Brodinsky!

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September 25, 2013

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This book gives a heartfelt, in depth description of what it is like to go through breast cancer with the one you love. It is beautifully written and I felt as though I was living it with them! I highly recommend this book!

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September 24, 2013

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In It Takes 2, Mark Brodinsky windows us into his world where his wife, the cancer patient, is not the only victim. Part journal, part roadmap, It Takes 2 goes to the real humanity of facing the mortality of one's better half. Mark's candid perspective, love, and fierce intention resonate with hope in a story which is about much more than cancer. Mark himself is perhaps the most heroic character for the way he appreciates this life and so many of us in it...as he says, "thanks for caring."

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September 24, 2013

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It Takes Two: A Spouse's Story by Mark Brodinsky should be read by every person who is experiencing serious illness or injury or by a loved one of someone who is experiencing either of those situations. The book is an eloquent testament to the power of love and the healing energy derived from the belief that things will get better. There is not one word of "poor me" from the author or his wife who suffered breast cancer and the radical surgery she elected to have to beat the cancer. Rather, the book is a celebration of the courage displayed by them both in seeing it through.

The book also encourages readers to speak and write down their true feelings and be validated in them. John Mackovic writing in the Palm Springs, CA Desert Sun on November 2, 2013 quoted author and artist Doe Zantamata who said, " To be happy, you don't have to do anything new. You just have to remember how to believe again...Believe everything good is possible. Believe in your dreams. Believe in people. Believe in love. But most of all...believe in yourself." The author, his wife, their family and extended family and friends never stopped believing in his wife's recovery, and I think, in themselves. Read this book and believe.

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November 4, 2013

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This book is a must read for anyone with a family member with breast cancer. It takes you through the spouse's perspective from diagnosis to recovery. Mark journaled his wife's journey and put all of his emotions out there. It is beautifully written and inspiring to anyone going through breast cancer. Thank you, Mark for sharing Debbie's story.

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October 23, 2013

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A friend recommended this book. This was a great perspective of a man standing beside his partner and passing along to the reader fear, hope, useful information and a broader story than his own. I loved Vinnie the tattoo artist. This is a great book. Thanks for sharing, Mark and "thanks for caring"

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This book is a must read. What sets this book apart from other books about surviving breast cancer is that it is told by the husband and his point of view, not from the survivor. At times sad, at times poignant but even through the worst of it you can always feel the love he has for his wife, her strength and the strength of their extended family and friends. The posts that are included from their friends and family lets you really into the heart and strength of the family. I would recommend this book to anyone who is currently going through this, whether you are the person or the caregiver. I also recommend this book to anyone who has a friend that has been or is currently going through their fight now. It was an eye opener for me.

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There isn't a shortage of books about breast cancer, but most are written from the perspective of the person who has battled cancer or a physician or other expert. What an enlightening experience to read about breast cancer from a husband and caregiver's perspective! Not only does the author give us insight into his wife's experience and emotions, but he openly shares and reveals his love, compassion, support, and, yes, sometimes anger at the disease as he stands by his wife's side during their journey to beat the beast. Your story may not be the same, but I guarantee if you have a loved one battling cancer, you won't go wrong reading It Takes 2.

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From the moment I opened this book I never stopped reading. Mark invites the reader to come along on this journey that his family went through. I cried, laughed and learned so much. This book will give comfort and knowledge to those going through similar situations. Most importantly, Mark and his family never give up. They get knocked down and get right back up. They fought cancer together and with their strength, determination and will to prevail... They do!

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