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It’s Just About Life: Viral Thoughts

March 22, 2020 By markbrodinsky Leave a Comment

It’s been a long time. Maybe too long, or maybe now is just the right time to share a few thoughts. The last blog I wrote on this platform was more than two years ago when I lost a friend, much too soon, and then I transitioned from, It’s Just About… Life & The Sunday Series, to a new Storytelling for Business/Non-Profits/Organizations platform. Now, what brings me back is not the loss of life, but the challenge of living a new one. Not a story to share, but some thoughts and words to express.

Writers write. Sometimes that’s all we know. Trust me, I’m a writer.

So, write about what?

Maybe write about the fact that while we’re all in this together, we’re also confused about what this is.

Maybe write about the need to understand what’s best to do?

Maybe write about how we all want to see the final outcome of all of this even before we go through the process?

Maybe write about the fact that there are so many more questions than answers.

Maybe write about how all of this, crazy as it may seem, as overwhelming, even at times, exhilarating, (yes, I’ll explain that reason soon), will no doubt change the world forever. Yes, that’s scary, but it’s also necessary. Change is inevitable, growth is optional.

So stay with me here, even as you watch the World Map change color from gray to Coronavirus blue. Even as this virus, (and could they come up with a better COVID-19 graphic than an orb with the red stuff puffing out of it like a ball of yarn turned evil?), spreads like wildfire, we can all pretend to hold hands from at least three feet apart and give fake hugs from six feet apart and see us social-distance from the old world we once knew.

The Virus Ball. Really?

 

The number one thing we’re being told, and let’s face it, that we all must tell ourselves is, it’s going to be OK. And yes, it always is. We’ve always been. Right now, at this moment, you are a 100% survivor of everything that has come before in your life. You didn’t slip up even .00001%, because yes you’re here and you’re breathing – you made it. And let’s hope you still do.

Yet, we all know there will be those who won’t. Like with any virus or disease, people are going to leave us. It’s heartbreaking, it can be devastating and it can be life-changing. And nowhere in this blog am I making any of that reality seem small. Life is precious, life is what we all want to see continue, though too many of us don’t always choose to LIVE it. If we didn’t think life was worth it, we wouldn’t stay inside, we’d run around touching, holding, hugging, maybe even kissing and licking everything in sight, to increase our odds of COVID-19 infecting us and then like a Zombie eating flesh, we’d take our infected selves and pass it on so others could be infected and feel the same “joy”.

Unfortunately, some people are doing just that, whether they know it or not. They are infected, but unaware. They are going about their daily business with nary a care in the world, yet infecting the world at the same time.

Or are they?

That’s where some of the questions come in. And questions, oh yeah, we’ve got questions.

I took a look around and pulled this little ditty off of a website called Medscape, where it attributes the information it received from the World Health Organization: The World Health Organization estimates that worldwide, annual influenza epidemics result in about 3-5 million cases of severe illness and about 250,000 to 500,000 deaths. [21] In the United States, individual cases of seasonal flu and flu-related deaths in adults are not reportable illnesses; consequently, mortality is estimated by using statistical models. [1]

So it does raise the question… are we making a big deal out of something so normal? If you didn’t track the influenza numbers before, like in the U.S., then how can you say this is better or worse than a “statistical model?”

I’m not sure. You tell me. All I’m being told is to wash my hands, cough and sneeze into my elbow, don’t touch my face, stay three feet away from all other humans and if I’m sick, to stay home. It all makes sense and it should, because IT IS COMMON SENSE if you’re sick. I wouldn’t expect anyone with influenza to run around coughing and sneezing on others. And yes, I get it, we’re all trying to contain the spread of this “bug” that is traveling so fast around the world it makes your head spin. And yes, it’s making some people sicker than others and the death toll is rising, because it always does when people who are older or autoimmune compromised come in contact with bad stuff.

Like I said, more questions than answers. I’m just trying to understand it too.

Then I searched for some more information on the difference between the spread of COVID-19 and normal influenza and found this webpage:

https://www.avera.org/balance/infectious-disease/influenza-or-covid-19-whats-the-difference/

An interesting fact from that article is this: Using the term “coronavirus” can cause confusion as well. COVID-19 is a coronavirus, but not the only one. COVID-19 specifies a certain strain of a coronavirus (COronaVIrus Disease-2019 = COVID-19). People around the world often get infected with four other common human coronaviruses – 229E, NL63, OC43 and HKU1. In fact, most people get infected with one of these at some point in their life. They present like the common cold, with mild to moderate upper-respiratory tract illnesses.

Wow, that’s a lot of influenza and colds. I suppose my point here is when is enough, enough? Before I go on, let me emphasize the point again – if you are reading this and have lost a loved one, friend or anyone you know because of the current pandemic –  my thoughts are with you. Even one death is too many, and it appears we are in unchartered territory with a quickly spreading virus that loves a good host when it sees one, namely us-  we humans.

Are there people getting COVID-19 and having a tough time? You bet. Are there people getting COVID-19 and basically being symptom-free? You bet. Is the world infected by a pandemic? You bet. Are the politicians getting hammered because of all of this? You bet. (I mean, come on, they’re politicians, virtual marketing machines, they’re not doctors or specialists, they know about as much about this as you and I do.) Yet, we expect them to solve all of our problems.

The confusion, the information and the consternation around all of this are enough to, well, make you sick. And as usual, we have the media, your TV and of course now your phone and its ability to bring you compelling information and misinformation, all at your fingertips, (make sure your screen is clean, please), and we believe and don’t believe any and all of it.

My point here is we all have to think, but we don’t know what to think, only what we’re told. What we’re told is there’s no need to think – just watch – be afraid and of course, keep washing your hands. My hands are so dry now from washing, I own more skin cream, than hand sanitizer.

I don’t care about conspiracy theories. I don’t care about how or where it all began. That just means you’re focusing your time staring at the wake behind the boat, not on the energy of the person driving it. That person or people, are me and you.

At the end of the day, it all comes down to what we can do. What we believe and how we live our lives. At the end of the day, we are all 100% responsible for the quality of our lives and the results of our actions. So don’t break the law, or defy an order, but at some point, make your own decision, based on your gut, on what you believe and how you want to live.

I urge you not to make that choice based out of fear. Because most of us are going to make it through this, we always have, we always will. Let’s once again look at the facts at the moment if you are reading this: You are a 100% survivor of all that has come before in your life. When the sun sets on this pandemic, and make no mistake it will set – it will be time to drink a Corona, instead of run from one. Right now, you can either buy a Corona beer or have one delivered to your home – but because of the Coronavirus, you can’t head to the bar to order one on tap. And if you do have one, well then enjoy it responsibly, which means alone. Right now, there’s a lot you cannot do, because we’re told we can’t, or else.

So what can you do? I spent more than 45 minutes the other night with a very good friend of mine, Rob Commodari, talking about just those things on a Facebook Live event. I’ll put the link here, but know this is not a shameless self-promotion plug, just a link to some information that maybe will distract you from all of this. In fact, I’ll be including a note that I got up to write this blog this morning into the pages of my Thank You Corona V Journal. I’m keeping track of me and the lessons I learn from this right in that journal. If you want more information on the journal – then watch the link: https://www.facebook.com/mark.brodinsky/videos/10220860942540780/

I got the idea to write this blog today before the sun came up. I watched it rise while I’ve shared my thoughts and tonight, I’m going to watch that same sun go down. It always has, it always will. But will you?

A part of me believes this is all part of a correction, not one on Wall Street, but instead a correction from another street, that highway to heaven. God, a higher power, or simply the universe which for years now has watched us pick apart our basic human interaction. Meaning we’ve gone from being in each other’s physical space to one where we live vicariously through the fake lives of other people we see on social media and so instead, virtually, trying to bridge the gap between what it is we so lazily accept, our online existence, (social media), from what it is we really need, which is the human touch. Someone, some being or something – whatever you believe – has decided that if we so much enjoy living our lives this way – then here you go, let’s go X games on this sucker – and live apart, way apart. Now there are some new rules – stay away from each other, even if right in your physical presence. I can speak to you six feet away, so of course, you can barely hear me and I definitely can’t touch you, for fear I might infect you, or you infect me.

So we sit apart and we wait.

We get to do more of what drove us apart in the first place, live online, stare at our phones and watch TV, a lot of TV, most of it comprised of news programs. Do you want to know the real pandemic? Keep watching TV news, now THERE’S something that’s catching. A skewed, most of the time sick view of the world. My advice, be informed but don’t be overwhelmed. I know it’s not easy to do. But if you are trying to keep the virus out of your home, know that there’s already a drug dealer living with you in your living room and in your bedroom – and that’s your television.

But I digress.

We can’t escape the fact these are crazy times. Yet, as I mentioned earlier these are also exhilarating times because change is being forced upon us. We are affected – physically, financially, and definitely emotionally – which means we are smack in the middle of a ton of adversity. What that provides all of us is a chance. It’s a real chance to find what we are made of, a chance to adapt, to pivot, to tweak and a monumental opportunity to grow and think of new ideas and how we can be different. The ideas, the lessons, the inventions, the new world order that comes out of all of this – will mean just that, a new world. You will either be ready to embrace it, and hopefully, you’ve helped to shape it, or you can do what most do when they see something new and different, run back into the corner and cower – trying to hold on to what was before.

There are no good old days, there are just old days and they’re gone. Every day is a new one to make magic, and you get to be the magician. Maybe you can’t pull a rabbit out of a hat, but who cares – you’re already there – because you’re here and life is a miracle, so are you.

So my advice in all of this is to focus on what you can do today. It’s the present moment, it’s the now, it’s counting your blessings, believing in your own intuition and remember that soon enough, we’ll get to do what we love to do best, to touch and to hug and hopefully with renewed appreciation and gratitude for what is important in life. We’ll get to feel again what it’s like to be close to one another and satisfy our basic human craving to feel desired and important.

I heard something recently, a study from many years ago that asked, what attracts the attention of most adults? The answer? Number one was health, number two, a very close second, was other people.

Let’s get past this health issue and get back to what attracts most of us, what we all desire and what we all really need, other people.

Fk COVID-19. Fk misinformation. F**k hysteria.

Embrace life.

I’ll see you on the other side… with a big hug.

Love you,
Mark Brodinsky

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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The Sunday Series (154), with Mark Brodinsky

September 3, 2017 By markbrodinsky Leave a Comment

Yes, you can. You just have to believe. Sometimes it really is that simple. Find the will and find a way.

When you try, even if you don’t succeed, you will hold your head up high. You didn’t stand on the sidelines, you got in the game. Got bloodied, got dirty, paid the price.

And now  – you’ve got a story to tell.

Everyone has a story.

I am Mark Brodinsky and this is The Sunday Series.


The Sunday Series (154): Iron Girl

It would have been easy, so easy for Beth Bracaglia to quit – and no one would ever say she didn’t give it a try. Beth was giving it her best and even her best wasn’t good enough to keep her going, or so at least it seemed. Her left leg was hurting so bad she could barely run and the pain was not going away. This was only the training regimen. The main event was still a long way off.

But Beth had come this far and the finish line of the race was what she still envisioned in her mind. Beth was an Iron Girl and she knew it, even if she had yet to prove it to the rest of the world. The world had been waiting for quite some time now.

“I got it in my mind about seven years ago I was going to do this,” says Beth. “It’s so funny, those Facebook memories and feeds that remind you of things from years ago, reminded me I had it in my mind I was going to do this. I think because I was turning 40, I never really told too many people about my thoughts and so it went away, especially with no one to hold me accountable. Then my sister-in-law who lost her husband to brain cancer, decides to do the Iron Girl race, which happened to fall on her late husband’s birthday. I watched her on every piece of the race and I was like, I’m doing this next year. That was 2013, two more years go by and… nothing.”

“Last year I went to support my sister-in-law and her friends and I was standing there with a race shirt on to support them, when this random girl finishes the race and congratulates me too. I said, no there is no medal around my neck. I’m just supporting my friends. I said instead, congratulations to you. She said, ‘it’s my 5th time, no big deal.’  She says to me, why aren’t you in the race? I said I’ve never run a day in my life. I don’t own a bike. I haven’t swam since I was little. She said to me, ‘I just hear excuses and they are bad excuses.’ Then her friends finish and I offer to take their picture. I send it to this woman and she sends me back a note later on saying – See You Next Year!”

That was the beginning of Beth making it to the finish line.  She ended up doing a Facebook Live video walking along the beach: “If anybody is watching this I want to do the Iron Girl race this year and if you are watching I want you to hold me accountable, because I don’t wanna do this, but if you hold me accountable, I will.”

Beth says the offers to help came pouring in. One woman offered up her brand new bike, others offered for Beth to come swim with them, another told her about a running group. Put up your challenge, make it real and others will come out of the woodwork to make it happen. Everybody loves a champion.

But champions are made, not born. So now it was time to get to work. Beth says her husband initially was skeptical. “He knows me very well”, says Beth. “At first it was hard for him to take me seriously, because he knows I’m an all-in-person in whatever I do. He said, ‘I will believe you when I see you start running, not just running your mouth about it. I joined the fall running group and I’d come back and tell my husband I just ran three miles. He said, ‘Three miles! That’s fabulous, go get it girl! He saw me running, cycling, swimming and he really got into it. He would tell me to go to bed early – ‘you’ve got to get up and train!’ he said.”

Did Beth want to quit during her training? You bet. Anything worth doing in life is going to challenge you physically, emotionally and mentally. What Beth didn’t expect was the mental part – the mind part. Unless you find a way to overtake your mind, to change your thoughts, they will work to defeat you. Beth wasn’t letting her brain get the best of her.

“The mental part is what really got to me,” Beth says. “There were several times/days I said to myself, ‘I’m not going to do this anymore. A lot of it had to do with the running, especially when my left leg started to hurt so bad. It was not going away. I hurt me so bad there were times I could not run. I would walk instead, ice down my leg and do what I could to make it better. I thought to myself I could just quit and literally not do this. But the pure aggravation I would have with myself for not complete something, was more important to me than anything. It kept me going. I used positive affirmations:

Beth, you are an Iron Girl.
You can absolutely do this.
You are strong enough and powerful enough.

I would flip my doubts and turn them around and inspire myself.”

Think, believe, do, achieve. Finally, it was race day.

August 20th, 2017, Centennial Park in Columbia, Maryland.  The Iron Girl marathon begins with a swim, then a bike race and then a run. 20 miles in all. Beth’s heat began at 8am. There were women of all ages, from teens to those in their 7th decade of life. Those women in their 70’s, there were four of them who inspired everyone says Beth: “When they started everyone stopped and clapped for them. I’ll never forget when they announced their names, like Mary Jones, who was running her 10th Iron Girl race at age 70.”

For Beth the swimming was the best part, since she swam as a child, the biking wasn’t bad, but the running almost defeated her. “The running really slowed me down,” says Beth. “But I knew going in that was my weakest part. Besides I wasn’t in it for the time. I wasn’t in it to win it, I was in it to finish it. I was just happy to see all the people there at the finish line.”

https://www.facebook.com/wendy.elover/videos/10209755653397368/

Finish she did. Mission accomplished. Iron Girl medal around her neck. This time the jersey and the medallion were real. Real good, because Beth made it happen. So what’s next?

  

“Am I gonna do it again?,” asks Beth. “I would entertain it. I don’t think it will happen this year, because there needs to be a different goal on the horizon for me. If somebody asked me, ‘hey do you want to be in a relay and do it with others, I might. But I could also just take a year off. It’s only been a short time since the race, I want to soak it in right now.”

While Beth is soaking it in, she’s also reflecting on the adventure. “The biggest thing is it’s all a journey,” she says. “I think so often we get caught up in the details of what we are doing and trying to accomplish, that we forget we are doing these things and you should appreciate you have the health you can do something as big as this. I was able to, from scratch, basically do a triathlon. If you have faith in yourself and put the goal out there, you really can make it happen with belief. Take a goal – any goal – if you set it out for yourself and do the work to make it happen, it’s going to happen for you. It’s really that simple. I did it with my business. I’ve done it several different times in my life. I take the goal, write it down, do the work and there it is – it happens.”

Believe it before you see it. Make an iron clad guarantee with yourself that you won’t give up. Then do the work – and next thing you know, you’re an Iron Girl.

Courtesy: Wendy Elover

Until next time thanks for taking the time,
Mark Brodinsky

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Touched & Moved: It’s Just About… Life

August 30, 2017 By markbrodinsky Leave a Comment

It’s an end and a beginning. The end of only looking at your drama, the beginning of focusing on the drama and the betterment of other people’s lives. It’s not always easy to do since the focus on our own lives consume much of our days and nights. Yet we are all connected and there is a piece of us in everyone we meet.

If you can’t help someone else to live better, or ease their pain, then you have done a disservice to your own soul. You can, we all can touch someone else and move them to think, to change, to dream, to take action, or maybe even to save them.

For me, it’s with words. Written, spoken, sharing what I feel in my heart and what I learn. I just heard philosopher Jim Rohn throw out this line: “If you work on your gifts, they will make room for you.” I believe If you work on your gifts… they will also make room for others.

So what is your gift?  What do you possess which can help others to better their own lives? It’s there, it’s in you.

Words are a good place to start, since we all use them, at least spoken, maybe not written as much – but spoken and certainly as thoughts in our minds. We all think, maybe too much. Words can make you or break you. Used wisely they can touch and move someone else.

It’s really about intensity. Words mixed with emotion, words mixed with love, words mixed with faith, words mixed with courage… that’s what’s powerful. Words have a certain effect, but words mixed with emotion have an incredible effect.

Jim Rohn describes it this way:

“If I had a little straight pin and I threw it at you and it hit you in the face or in the hand, you’d feel it – you’d feel this little straight pin. That means I got you with my words. But what if I took that little straight pin and wired it to the end of an iron bar? Then I swung it directly at you. See I could drive that pin through your heart.

The pin is the words, the iron bar is the emotions. It’s all about the emotions. Put more of you into what you say. Don’t be casual in language. Don’t be casual in words. Casualness leads to casualties on the freeway and in communication. Put more of YOU into what you say.”

Put more of you into who you are, and more of you into who you touch. Some people will be open to accepting, some will be tentative, some won’t care and some will run the other way. It doesn’t matter, if your aim and your purpose are true. If we don’t try, we don’t succeed. If we don’t try others lose, because in the end, realize it or not, they need you and what you bring to this world.

If you can touch someone and help them to move in the right direction, or feel a certain way that empowers them, then those emotions will lead them to do the same for others. That’s a recipe for a better world.

Look around outside of your own life and into the lives of others. Then touch them and help them to move.

Until next time, thanks for taking the time.

Mark Brodinsky

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What He Was: It’s Just About… Life

August 29, 2017 By markbrodinsky Leave a Comment

Live long enough and you just might just see it all. The good, the bad, the ugly… the heartbreaking.

It’s been several days now since Brian Feit died on a road just outside Towson, Maryland. His car crossed the center line, his life had barely crossed the half-century mark. Too young. Too soon. Too crazy to comprehend.

Yet, it’s reality. For his wife Holly, his daughter Zoey, his son Trevor, it’s too much to bear. For a community in shock, for literally hundreds of friends and family who knew Brian, it’s nearly impossible to imagine. And it’s a sad sequel to a time most of us wish never happened.

Back in 2010 one of Brian’s best friends, Larry Bensky, was killed while riding his bike along the back roads in Baltimore County. At the time it was tough for Brian to understand how God could allow his best friend’s life to be cut short.  Larry was only 44 when he died. Now the two are together. There, up in heaven, maybe they both have come to understand what it’s hard to believe here on earth – once in a while God takes a really good one. But much too soon.

 

I knew both Brian and Larry and all I can figure is it must be a tough job being the Almighty, and I suppose you need some real angels to help get it right, to help make sure souls here on earth are taken care of, are shown the right way, are taught that love conquers all – that’s why He needed two blood brothers to join Him. To teach us all how to become more.

It’s the only reason that makes any sense. Since high school, Brian came in-and-out of my life and at different times I got to spend time with both he and his wife Holly. But in what now seems an incredible twist of fate, Brian passed right through my life again, less than a week before he passed away.

When the garbage disposal broke under the kitchen sink the week of August 14th, there was only one call I needed to make – to Brian. Brian was a master plumber, and a friend. Who else would I want? When asked, “how much does he charge?”, it didn’t really matter, my response was, “I trust he will get it right and he’ll be fair.” The best thing I’ve known about Brian is, he was always fair. Before he left the house on August 18th he wrote up a receipt and for some reason I saved it, I have no idea why. The day I got the text Brian was gone, I just stared at that receipt, wondering aloud why I hadn’t tossed it aside.

Was there some inner sense I felt something was coming? No way. Maybe just because when it came to Brian, there was something worth savoring.

I don’t know Brian as well as his close friends from school and no one will ever know him as well as his beautiful wife and two incredible children. But to hear the stories and see the overwhelming love over the past few days – you know there’s one man who got life right. The love you get is only equal to the love you give.

“I is what I is”, he would say.

Brian & his sister Gayle

 

Standing at the outdoor services to honor Brian’s memory the past few evenings, under the dimming light, in the waning days of the summer season, with a cool breeze gently blowing through the backyard, you could almost feel as if Brian was there watching. As if perhaps God tried to give his family a gift – crafting two of the most perfect weather days of the year. If God wanted Brian, maybe the Lord was trying to leave a little perfection behind for his family. One more warm memory. And why not, Brian was a soulful spirit who never left anyone feeling cold.

Cold wasn’t in Brian’s vocabulary – certainly not in the life he brought to this earth. Honest to a fault, devoted to his family, adored by his friends, Brian was almost an anomaly in a world where everyone tries to be like everyone else. But Brian refused to follow the herd. Not only was he a master plumber, he was a master griller, he never met a piece of good Baltimore beef he didn’t like, or couldn’t cook. He loved to tell stories, to tell it like it is, to hold nothing back.  I was not among his circle of closest friends, but to hear the stories his friends and family told at his funeral – of a man with great character, integrity, great fun and great caring – you got the sense that while Brian didn’t try to be everything to everyone, there was no one he met who wasn’t left with an impression of meeting someone special.

“I is what I is”, he would say.

 

What he was will long be remembered. You don’t create a life so many celebrate without leaving an indelible mark. The goal of this life is to make sure people know you came this way. There was much more “way” in front of Brian, but behind him now are memories that will take a lifetime to recall. That’s the good stuff – be who you are – manage to pull that off and no one will ever forget you, and so many will love you, for just being you.

It was a life well-lived, albeit much, much too short. Brian was Brian. “I is what I is”, he would say.

Rest in peace Brian Feit. Thanks for being who you were meant to be.

 

Until next time thanks for taking the time,

Mark Brodinsky

 

 

 

 

 

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Love seeing new blogs hit the ground running like this one (by a dad no less), but I also urge anyone vaguely interested in blogging to stay tuned, I am. Good luck on your journey – glad that I am along for the ride.

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Great blog Mark! I always appreciate reading what you have to say. You are very gifted and talented and hopefully someday you’ll not just blog, but write a book.

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I’m definitely along for the ride. We’ve all seen how much damage the written word can inflict. More positive writers are needed. And I love how you are using your personal experiences – those with your wife and children – and your gift of writing to open eyes and to inspire others.

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From your first writing in 4th grade entitled “People” which was published in the school newspaper, you have always been able to write. Never more so than when you started “Caringbridge” and now your blog, everyone who reads says what a wonderful writer you are. Our DREAM for you is to become an author and encourage people every day. You are by the far the best and we hope and pray you reach your dream.

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Ed Nemec

Mark, you are a truly remarkable individual. You do speak from your heart, I can’t wait to read your book. You are an incredible writer.

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Mark, I am glad I clicked on your post this morning, which lead me to your writing, your goal.
Would like to connect. This speaks to me.

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WOW!!! It Takes 2 is a must read for anyone who has known someone diagnosed with cancer or other life threatening disease. This is the real story of a family lead by an incredible woman, Debbie Brodinsky, who took radical steps to beat the breast cancer beast. The story is told by her husband, Mark Brodinsky, through journal entries he kept starting with diagnosis through one year cancer free. This author's unique ability to pour his heart out onto the page draws you in from the beginning and holds you until the very end.

Thanks to Mark and Debbie Brodinsky for this gift...I have a new perspective on what it means to be a breast cancer survivor. You are a hero, Debbie Brodinsky!

TeeBThree
September 25, 2013

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This book gives a heartfelt, in depth description of what it is like to go through breast cancer with the one you love. It is beautifully written and I felt as though I was living it with them! I highly recommend this book!

Jgs17
September 24, 2013

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In It Takes 2, Mark Brodinsky windows us into his world where his wife, the cancer patient, is not the only victim. Part journal, part roadmap, It Takes 2 goes to the real humanity of facing the mortality of one's better half. Mark's candid perspective, love, and fierce intention resonate with hope in a story which is about much more than cancer. Mark himself is perhaps the most heroic character for the way he appreciates this life and so many of us in it...as he says, "thanks for caring."

Réné Pallace
September 24, 2013

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It Takes Two: A Spouse's Story by Mark Brodinsky should be read by every person who is experiencing serious illness or injury or by a loved one of someone who is experiencing either of those situations. The book is an eloquent testament to the power of love and the healing energy derived from the belief that things will get better. There is not one word of "poor me" from the author or his wife who suffered breast cancer and the radical surgery she elected to have to beat the cancer. Rather, the book is a celebration of the courage displayed by them both in seeing it through.

The book also encourages readers to speak and write down their true feelings and be validated in them. John Mackovic writing in the Palm Springs, CA Desert Sun on November 2, 2013 quoted author and artist Doe Zantamata who said, " To be happy, you don't have to do anything new. You just have to remember how to believe again...Believe everything good is possible. Believe in your dreams. Believe in people. Believe in love. But most of all...believe in yourself." The author, his wife, their family and extended family and friends never stopped believing in his wife's recovery, and I think, in themselves. Read this book and believe.

Paul A. Riecks
November 4, 2013

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This book is a must read for anyone with a family member with breast cancer. It takes you through the spouse's perspective from diagnosis to recovery. Mark journaled his wife's journey and put all of his emotions out there. It is beautifully written and inspiring to anyone going through breast cancer. Thank you, Mark for sharing Debbie's story.

Jmu1109
October 23, 2013

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A friend recommended this book. This was a great perspective of a man standing beside his partner and passing along to the reader fear, hope, useful information and a broader story than his own. I loved Vinnie the tattoo artist. This is a great book. Thanks for sharing, Mark and "thanks for caring"

Blahsan

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This book is a must read. What sets this book apart from other books about surviving breast cancer is that it is told by the husband and his point of view, not from the survivor. At times sad, at times poignant but even through the worst of it you can always feel the love he has for his wife, her strength and the strength of their extended family and friends. The posts that are included from their friends and family lets you really into the heart and strength of the family. I would recommend this book to anyone who is currently going through this, whether you are the person or the caregiver. I also recommend this book to anyone who has a friend that has been or is currently going through their fight now. It was an eye opener for me.

L. Bogash
Seven Valleys, PA

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There isn't a shortage of books about breast cancer, but most are written from the perspective of the person who has battled cancer or a physician or other expert. What an enlightening experience to read about breast cancer from a husband and caregiver's perspective! Not only does the author give us insight into his wife's experience and emotions, but he openly shares and reveals his love, compassion, support, and, yes, sometimes anger at the disease as he stands by his wife's side during their journey to beat the beast. Your story may not be the same, but I guarantee if you have a loved one battling cancer, you won't go wrong reading It Takes 2.

 PattiM
September 25, 2013

 

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From the moment I opened this book I never stopped reading. Mark invites the reader to come along on this journey that his family went through. I cried, laughed and learned so much. This book will give comfort and knowledge to those going through similar situations. Most importantly, Mark and his family never give up. They get knocked down and get right back up. They fought cancer together and with their strength, determination and will to prevail... They do!

 Jenny Schloss 

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I heard that yesterday, Thanksgiving Day, the word thankful was tweeted out more than 3.8 million times. Not at our house, at least for a few hours last night, it was only spoken. How about at your home? On Wednesday I wrote the blog post about how I planned for a phone-free Thanksgiving, (http://markbrodinsky.com/350ghost-of-thanksgiving-past-its-just-about-life/), at least from […]

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