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Mom: It’s Just About… Life.

May 6, 2014 By markbrodinsky 4 Comments

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The one.

The blog posts this week (Tuesday, Thursday, Sunday), will focus on the person who perhaps holds the world’s most important job. It’s not the President, not the King, not the quarterback of your favorite football team, not the guy who created the iPhone and not the founder of Facebook. Besides they’re all guys and you probably would agree they don’t hold a candle to the person who, for at least a brief moment, and hopefully many, many more, wielded the greatest power over your existence, your Mom.

Mother’s Day is this Sunday and although you get a day to think about it, I think you might agree it’s worth more than 24 hours of contemplation and celebration.

I’ve got one, a good one. My Mom is caring, loving, nurturing and fortunately for my family, still around. I got a good head start in life because of her and I, as do so many of us, owe her a debt of gratitude. Motherhood can be the world’s most rewarding and most thankless job all at the same time. Being a Mom means sacrifice, it means opening up your heart so wide, so vulnerable, filled with love, worry, hurt, joy and laughter that a Mom’s center muscle might just be the strongest of them all. To be a Mom that heart needs to have a tough skin and at the same time be completely porous and transparent. To be a Mom means you give completely, sometimes unrecognized, sometimes void of gratitude, but give nonetheless because you already gave so much of yourself, your own flesh and blood, you can’t help but love, teach, and nurture until it hurts.

And sometimes it does hurt, because to get it right you’ve got to reprimand your own, get tough, fight back and then turn on a dime…to be tender, thankful and loving. Find another who can juggle these emotions, one who has a heart that can handle the twists and turns, a heart that can take the beating and then start beating again, in awe, wonder and pride for those to whom they gave life. It’s no small feat, in fact it’s a feat at which the world marvels, for those of us who aren’t, it’s nearly impossible to comprehend, yet in most cases we witness it being accomplished with such subtle grace under pressure you don’t even realize it’s happening.

It just so happens we take a day each year to give thanks and gratitude to Mom, though there really aren’t enough days in our lifetime for this, for they gave us life, help us live it, and that’s why it’s just about… life.

Until next time, thanks for taking the time.
Mark
(Coming up Thursday: being a Mom, the best quotes from those who live it. And Sunday: celebration and respect in The Sunday Series).

Mark Brodinsky, Author, Blogger, Financial Services
It Takes 2. Surviving Breast Cancer: A Spouse’s Story
#1 Amazon Best-Seller
Get the book: www.spouses-story.com, www.amazon.com/author/markbrodinsky
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Super Sunday: It’s Just About… Life.

May 4, 2014 By markbrodinsky Leave a Comment

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The Sunday Series takes a week off to witness some inspiration, as we are immersed in a day-long event which brings athletes from all over for some intense compeition. The opening ceremonies begin in just one hour (7:30am). The Sunday Series returns next week with more stories of inspiration, courage and hope. Hope you take the time to join me then.

Mark

Mark Brodinsky, Author, Blogger, Financial Services
It Takes 2. Surviving Breast Cancer: A Spouse’s Story
#1 Amazon Best-Seller
Get the book: www.spouses-story.com, www.amazon.com/author/markbrodinsky

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Time to Bloom: It’s Just About… Life.

May 1, 2014 By markbrodinsky Leave a Comment

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Sometimes we don’t really notice, just how good it can get. So maybe we should start all over, start all over again. – Rob Thomas, lyrics from Someday

May I? Yes, you may and you should. As the calendar turns to May it’s time to make sure you too are ready to be in full bloom. Time to take stock and reach for some rebirth, if need be. There are no excuses. Actually there is one, it’s you.

It’s not the economy, it’s not your bank account, it’s not your job, it’s not your family, it’s not your friends, the ultimate responsibility falls squarely on your shoulders to recognize all your potential and not let anything, or anyone hold you back. And it’s OK to enjoy and relish in success, love and abundance and not feel like the other shoe must drop if you do so, or feel guilty because you are stealing the light from someone else.

We are all meant to shine, we are all equal, it’s just that some rise to the challenge of who they are, what talent and gifts they bring to the world and others never tap in, or realize too late. And if you try and fail, that’s OK too. There will always be another chance, until the end of your existence there is always another shot. If the journey continues, so should your desire to be all that you can be. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with failure, because it means you are at least doing something…AND it means you are that much closer to your goal. The other side of the coin is doing nothing, apathy, indecision, or paralysis. That is worse than failure.

So if you need to start over, do so. If you need help look for those who can help you, alive or even dead. Mentors, “frentors” and advocates are everywhere if you just ask, or read a book, listen to a CD, watch a video of someone who brings inspiration or education in present day or from the past.

It works. I know it works. You just have to do it. I’m happy to help. There is a right time to do it. There is a right time to begin. I know the secret to that time. It’s right now.

Time to bloom.

Until next time, thanks for taking the time.
Mark

Mark Brodinsky, Author, Blogger, Financial Services
#1 Amazon Best-Seller, It Takes 2. Surviving Breast Cancer: A Spouse’s Story
Get the book: www.spouses-story.com, www.amazon.com/author/markbrodinsky
markbrodinsky@gmail.com

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But How?: It’s Just About… Life.

April 29, 2014 By markbrodinsky Leave a Comment

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“But how?” shouldn’t even be a question. It shouldn’t even be a statement: “I don’t know how.”

The how is everywhere, it’s down the street at your local library, it’s at your fingertips online on your computer, or even closer, on your phone. The how is as simple as asking someone who has done it, or is doing it. Don’t waste your idea, your talent, or your why because you say you don’t know how. You’re cheating yourself and the world out of something which could become remarkable because YOU possess that much power and inspiration.

Feeling insecure? Then Google Sean Stephenson, the “three-foot giant” who has overcome all odds and created an unbreakable character, his mission is to rid the world of insecurity. He says we don’t have an inspiration problem, we have an implementation problem. He says it’s a “but” problem, too many people fail to take action on their big idea, or their dream,by sitting on their “buts”. His goal…to not let the challenges of life take you down, or keep you down. Just check out his short film, “You Got This”, (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MpfF-9oXEA4).

You not only got this, you have it in spades. The trick is to figure our what “it” is for you and then stop making excuses, get off your “but”, do the little things, the seemingly trivial activities every day which will drive you to realizing your goal and life’s desire. The smallest of steps make a huge difference in the long run. Just do it, just persevere. I know a guy who likes to write, inspire and then publish. 🙂 A couple of days a week he writes a blog and once a week he shares other people’s stories which seem to transform many, including himself. It works, it’s making a difference and it’s simply a small step to a larger dream and expanding his why.

So don’t worry about the how. The resources are endless, ask, inquire, seek out the answers, take your why and figure out a way. Do it for you, do it for us.

Until next time, thanks for taking the time.
Mark

Mark Brodinsky, Author, Blogger, Financial Services
It Takes 2. Surviving Breast Cancer: A Spouse’s Story
#1 Amazon Best-Seller
Get the book: www.spouses-story.com, www.amazon.com/author/markbrodinsky
markbrodinsky@gmail.com

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Love seeing new blogs hit the ground running like this one (by a dad no less), but I also urge anyone vaguely interested in blogging to stay tuned, I am. Good luck on your journey – glad that I am along for the ride.

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From your first writing in 4th grade entitled “People” which was published in the school newspaper, you have always been able to write. Never more so than when you started “Caringbridge” and now your blog, everyone who reads says what a wonderful writer you are. Our DREAM for you is to become an author and encourage people every day. You are by the far the best and we hope and pray you reach your dream.

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WOW!!! It Takes 2 is a must read for anyone who has known someone diagnosed with cancer or other life threatening disease. This is the real story of a family lead by an incredible woman, Debbie Brodinsky, who took radical steps to beat the breast cancer beast. The story is told by her husband, Mark Brodinsky, through journal entries he kept starting with diagnosis through one year cancer free. This author's unique ability to pour his heart out onto the page draws you in from the beginning and holds you until the very end.

Thanks to Mark and Debbie Brodinsky for this gift...I have a new perspective on what it means to be a breast cancer survivor. You are a hero, Debbie Brodinsky!

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September 25, 2013

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This book gives a heartfelt, in depth description of what it is like to go through breast cancer with the one you love. It is beautifully written and I felt as though I was living it with them! I highly recommend this book!

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September 24, 2013

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In It Takes 2, Mark Brodinsky windows us into his world where his wife, the cancer patient, is not the only victim. Part journal, part roadmap, It Takes 2 goes to the real humanity of facing the mortality of one's better half. Mark's candid perspective, love, and fierce intention resonate with hope in a story which is about much more than cancer. Mark himself is perhaps the most heroic character for the way he appreciates this life and so many of us in it...as he says, "thanks for caring."

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September 24, 2013

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It Takes Two: A Spouse's Story by Mark Brodinsky should be read by every person who is experiencing serious illness or injury or by a loved one of someone who is experiencing either of those situations. The book is an eloquent testament to the power of love and the healing energy derived from the belief that things will get better. There is not one word of "poor me" from the author or his wife who suffered breast cancer and the radical surgery she elected to have to beat the cancer. Rather, the book is a celebration of the courage displayed by them both in seeing it through.

The book also encourages readers to speak and write down their true feelings and be validated in them. John Mackovic writing in the Palm Springs, CA Desert Sun on November 2, 2013 quoted author and artist Doe Zantamata who said, " To be happy, you don't have to do anything new. You just have to remember how to believe again...Believe everything good is possible. Believe in your dreams. Believe in people. Believe in love. But most of all...believe in yourself." The author, his wife, their family and extended family and friends never stopped believing in his wife's recovery, and I think, in themselves. Read this book and believe.

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November 4, 2013

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This book is a must read for anyone with a family member with breast cancer. It takes you through the spouse's perspective from diagnosis to recovery. Mark journaled his wife's journey and put all of his emotions out there. It is beautifully written and inspiring to anyone going through breast cancer. Thank you, Mark for sharing Debbie's story.

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October 23, 2013

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A friend recommended this book. This was a great perspective of a man standing beside his partner and passing along to the reader fear, hope, useful information and a broader story than his own. I loved Vinnie the tattoo artist. This is a great book. Thanks for sharing, Mark and "thanks for caring"

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This book is a must read. What sets this book apart from other books about surviving breast cancer is that it is told by the husband and his point of view, not from the survivor. At times sad, at times poignant but even through the worst of it you can always feel the love he has for his wife, her strength and the strength of their extended family and friends. The posts that are included from their friends and family lets you really into the heart and strength of the family. I would recommend this book to anyone who is currently going through this, whether you are the person or the caregiver. I also recommend this book to anyone who has a friend that has been or is currently going through their fight now. It was an eye opener for me.

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Seven Valleys, PA

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There isn't a shortage of books about breast cancer, but most are written from the perspective of the person who has battled cancer or a physician or other expert. What an enlightening experience to read about breast cancer from a husband and caregiver's perspective! Not only does the author give us insight into his wife's experience and emotions, but he openly shares and reveals his love, compassion, support, and, yes, sometimes anger at the disease as he stands by his wife's side during their journey to beat the beast. Your story may not be the same, but I guarantee if you have a loved one battling cancer, you won't go wrong reading It Takes 2.

 PattiM
September 25, 2013

 

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From the moment I opened this book I never stopped reading. Mark invites the reader to come along on this journey that his family went through. I cried, laughed and learned so much. This book will give comfort and knowledge to those going through similar situations. Most importantly, Mark and his family never give up. They get knocked down and get right back up. They fought cancer together and with their strength, determination and will to prevail... They do!

 Jenny Schloss 

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